Laughter is the closest distance between two people.
– Victor Borge
When I was young we told jokes like:
“What’s the most dangerous animal in the jungle?”
“A monkey in a tree with a machine gun”.
For adult modern audiences the punch-line might now be rewritten as:
“A poor man with a chain saw who hasn’t seen his family of eight for a year”.
I also remember amusing things like name changing. There was the heart warming singer Shirley Bassie who we lovingly called “Burly Chassis” because of her attractive figure, and the great Dusty Springfield who we not so lovingly called “Rusty Springboard”.
I have fond memories of comic books, Sunday roast, treacle pudding, climbing trees, countryside, putting exploding fireworks in people’s dustbins, roasting potatoes on bonfire night, visits to Uncle Jim, mucking about.
I remember serious things too like having a mom and dad, conkers, presents, astronomy, wondering what the hell I was doing here and what the hell some others were doing here.
There were, unfortunately, horrid things like school dinners, sadistic schoolteachers, school uniforms (especially woolen short trousers), dentists, nightmares, hay fever, sport, having nothing to do.
Ah, the trials of youth.
I’m getting old.
“I don’t feel old. I don’t feel anything till noon. That’s when it’s time for my nap.” – Bob Hope
“You never see a man walking down the street with a woman who has a little potbelly and a bald spot.” – Elayne Boosler
But about joking.
There’s someone I know, who shall remain nameless, whose main pastime now that he’s retired seems to be collecting “amusing” things from the Internet and distributing them to all and sundry. He’s been doing this for years now and I often wonder if there is anyone who’s still happy to receive them. I haven’t the heart to tell him to stop and he doesn’t seem to take a hint from my lack of response either.
I had an employer once who had a joke to tell almost every day, of which about ten percent were really funny, but one feigned laughter for the rest so as not to offend. I heard he may be coming to live in our area, if and when he can sell his present house. I hope he doesn’t come on the door with “Hello! How are you? Hey, have you heard the one about …”
“Behind every successful man is a woman, behind her is his wife.” – Groucho Marx
“I can’t write about my greatest mistakes because I’ve slept with most of them.”
– Arabella Weir
There are enough comedians, of course, who make a living telling jokes or making fun of things from life such as people, animals, rhubarb. I enjoy a good laugh like everyone else but there’s an awful lot of silliness and cynicism out there. Ok I know, it’s just a personal view, but some don’t even stop at insult and defamation of character these days. Indeed for some their wit (or lack of it) is primed by it. There are standup comedians who love to make fun or insult those of their audience who sit in the first few rows.
Of course, they may be their own family members or someone they paid to be there, but I don’t think it’s often so.
“Madam, why isn’t your husband laughing? Is he already thinking about having to go home?”
There’s also a lot of swearing these days, especially the “F” word in English is used to add spittle in driving a punch-line home, though it’s not allowed everywhere on stage. Billy Connolly’s a pretty heavy user but one of my favorites. Sex is a subject that seems to be high on the list of things one has to be careful with, not only in practice. A lot of comedians throw in comments on sexual relationships though it’s a treacherous quagmire for the unwary, where humor can rapidly ignite mixed emotions.
“Sex at age 90 is like trying to shoot pool with a rope.” – George Burns
“I blame my mother for my poor sex life. All she told me was ‘the man goes on top and the woman underneath.’ For three years my husband and I slept in bunk beds.”
– Joan Rivers
There are countries where one wouldn’t dare to make fun of royalty and others where there are no holds barred. Repercussions can sometimes be severe though, like the man who ended up with a three years sentence in a Thai prison for writing a book revealing something personal about their king. Luckily he’s been let out early for some reason, perhaps because the queen hadn’t a headache for once. His book has only sold seven copies (according to the media) which can’t have brought him much consolation unless he sees the whole episode as substance for a new, potential best seller.
Humor is, of course, relative to cultures. An American, for example, can laugh at something that wouldn’t make a Brit remove his beer glass from his lips and visa versa. This makes it extra hard for traveling comedians I should imagine, who have to adjust their repertoires for different audiences.
“Either he’s dead or my watch has stopped.” – Groucho Marx
Film comedies made in the west must have an especially hard time satisfying cinema-goers in, say, the Middle or Far East, especially if their productions get heavily neutered and/or badly translated. I remember when I was in Iran as an expat (expatriate). We were celebrating some occasion in a hotel with the rest of the crowd and a fellow expat, an American behind a microphone, held a very funny monologue over the habits of the local population, much to the amusement of us, but less apparently to that of the personnel and other local guests who could understand English. To us they were highly amusing anecdotes, but he almost had to leave the country as a result. Luckily for his career his public apologies were finally excepted though his local reputation as a university professor was severely damaged.
“Last night I dreamed I ate a ten pound marshmallow. When I woke up the pillow was gone.”
– Tommy Cooper
Humor can be wonderfully therapeutic. I remember sitting in tears (of laughter) while watching Laurel and Hardy, Groucho Marx, Bob Hope, Walter Matthau, George Burns, Tommy Cooper, Tony Hancock, Monty Python, ‘The Goon Show”, ‘Fawlty Towers’, ‘Porridge’, ‘Only fools and horses’, ‘Cheers’ and ‘Blackadder’ amongst others. Some of these will be unfamiliar to many readers and all will have their own favorites. I’d be glad to hear what yours are. Perhaps we can have a good laugh together.
“Never trust a man who, when left alone with a tea cosy, doesn’t try it on.”
– Billy Connolly
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